What 41 Looks Like On Me
I was born on Good Friday with tornado warnings. That sums up my personality more than you know. I now can say I’m in my 40’s but admit, it’s not a phrase I’m tempted to say.
I thought I’d share what this 40 something feels like. If you’re near my age perhaps you can relate.
What 41 looks like on me:
1. I’m growing my hair out and trying different styles just because.
2. I’m noticing my pretty blue eyes more than my double chin.
3. I’m counting the days…to my latest surgery.
4. I’m bolder in the colors I wear and the things I say in love.
5. I’m very aware of my sins.
6. I’m too aware of everyone else’s sins.
7. I’m eating steamed vegetables and loving it.
8. But I’m not completely surrendering the chocolate.
9. I’m not feeling obligated to finish books that aren’t keeping my attention.
10. I am feeling obligated to press in for promises regarding my family.
11. I’m not feeling guilty for booking a cruise for our 15th anniversary, anymore, that is.
12. I’m done worrying what others think and trying to please them.
13. I’m in total heaven speaking and teaching.
14. I’m not sure what my writing future holds but I know who holds my future.
15. I’m believing God for the plans He has for our kids.
16. I’m no longer bound to trying crafts if I don’t want to. I’m not good at it people!
17. I’m resting and loving it.
18. The size of my jeans no longer define me. I am a beloved daughter of the King of Kings.
19. I’m delegating more chores to the kids knowing my job is to prepare them to be someone’s spouse.
20. I can’t believe how fast time is passing but I don’t grieve over years gone by. I’m looking forward and now more than ever longing for my eternal home. Legacy is a keyword for me.
What does your current age look like on you?
A portion of my blog post today was on aging. While two of my daughters are older than you are, Julie, as I read your list–I totally got it!
I find my priorities shifting–for the better, I hope.
I must say my friend, forty-one looks fabulous on you! And I love your list!
In three months when I turn, your age plus more than two decades, I hope to wear it well, on the inside where it counts! Hugs, Rita
You wear 41 FABULOUSLY. I’m chucking crafting out the window, too!
Julie – You look fab at 41! Your list looks good. At 41 we were applying to adopt our 3rd child. Nothing like a young child to keep you young. It is all about how young you are on the inside!
p.s. On the outside, I have 10 yrs on you – inside I am only 32.
Rita, I agree, the inside is where it counts. You have a radiant inside and out, I’m so blessed to have you as a friend. Thank you for reading and leaving a sweet comment!
Lisa, Yay! Another rebellious non crafter, I love it! Thanks for leaving a comment. I really appreciate your encouragement.
Thanks Bev, I agree, it is about the inside. I’m so glad you stopped by and left a comment!
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